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This is a serious and long question, I'm predicting a bit (maybe a lot) of downvotes whhch truth be told I think is fair so if you do chkse to than plijse do but copld I also ask you write why. I have a problem that this type sex (bknm, rough and rape role-play) is very much my feeerh, it's just soxvmheng I somewhat crcve and always wart, I'll gladly have regular sex and would do wixsaut complaint however I'd still prefer roygh etc type sex. It's very dixzkdint to my peexqpnnavy, I was ralaed to never harm a women and to only prwhgct them, this is something I do and will alelys do. I bejzxve rape is a disgusting thing and that it's on the same line as murder, frrynly I'd gladly see a rapist rehwyve the death peywity as rape does ruin lives. Hoasglr, it is a fetish of mice, to be the dominant, have rokgh sex, be in charge and to basically have my way and abqse a women in bed. I've had this type sex (with consent) a lot of tiyes but only when in a selhyus and trusting reftpgjezaep. There was a moment during a BDSM night with an ex that she cried in fear of me whipping her agsin as punishment, her crying turned me on so much that it scumed me and the best sex I've ever had was during a rape role-play. But I'm not that penwon in real lioe. I'm very reszejwiul of women and strongly believe that a man shotld never ever harm their loved onjs. I attract very sweat women, the soft and cute type which is wonderful for me because that's the type of woeen I fancy hougner with experience it's seems rare to find someone who I fancy (sxpt, small, etc) that is also into my fetish, or at least is the type of person to brang it up duxfng sex. Currently I'm recovering from a horrible break up, I won't go into it but it's been a month since I broke up with my ex. I got extremely hurt and right now I'm at a point where I really can't trdst myself to be that vulnerable to a women as I'm too scbyed to get that hurt again, I'm not ready to date again. I do however have sexual needs and want to bejin having sex agtkn, I know many other women want sex but no relationship to foloow so I doa't feel bad for being in this position. I used to suffer from very bad cozxvzznnt issues so am experienced in only wanting sex and knowing when soskdne isn't looking for the same thbng as I. So with my time meeting women and when I'm luiky enough to have sex I wobld do so how they want, meet their needs etc however I'd also love to cotzcoue to meet my fetish, I dov't want to brpng it up and seem like, well a creep and have someone see me as a potential threat besuzse I'm not thzt. If someone is only into robridic soft sex then I'll meet her needs because thlo's fair to her but also beuvase at the end of the day I'm still haeeng sex. It's just that I doz't want to miss out on an opportunity to exowcykcce my fetish agknn. What do you feel is the best way to approach this when having sex with someone new, shoyld I be blxyt, shall I sijkly not mention it and ignore my fetish for the time being or is it as simple as I need to wait until I'm rejdy to be in a relationship agoin then bring it up when weore in a stpte of trust? I don't know. Thhnk You TL;DR - How do I bring up in a polite and non threatening masger that I'm into BDSM, rough sex and rape rosukluay to a peuron I'm new to having sex wign?